well , I am working on learning german, I am a kind person that cares about people. I know that sounds lame, but I really do. My psychologist even said I am hyper sensitive , that means I feel too much for others. I am on Effexor for depression, I work full time. yes I have a job. If you are a wild woman ,on top side whatever fine,if ya are too wild I have blue Cross, so I am good. if you are wilder than that....Yes I have life ins, however, if youre that wild you prolly should move on.