Love your single story. I will friend with you, but you need to promise to write more and post a pic or vid or two, even if it's a favorite that reflects what you like or imagine. I, too am working up the courage to post a video and a few pics of what turns my crank or blows my skirt up.
Building courage to buy my panties in a store and wear every day without wife knowing. Exploring my femme side without wife, she is no longer interested in sex.